Today marks two whole months since R. and I got hitched! Time has flown by, and we’ve definitely had our hands full since the wedding!
Speaking of busy, I’m here to tell you the cold, hard truth of combining finances with your spouse – why it sucks, why it’s fantastic, and why it’s the best thing to keep your marriage together. I may not be an expert on marriage yet, but I know what old married couples have told me.
Even the thought of combining accounts is enough for some of us to jump out a window. Especially when you’re in your 30’s and have managed money independently for some time. It feels like there’s suddenly a rooster in the hen-house. “Hey, um, what are you doing here? No, no, that’s mine – please don’t go through my things!” It’s weird. Not only does your spouse have access to all of your money, but you also hand over an equal vote to what happens to that money. And it’s not just your money anymore, it’s our money. Every feminist bone in my body wanted to jump out and burn a bra in solidarity of my independent sisters not needing men. Continue reading →
This, folks, is the post I’ve worked so hard for the privilege of writing.
I made my LAST debt-payment ever on April 15th (Tax Day, ironically), with my second-to-last paycheck from my job in the insurance industry. It was $963.70 to be exact. I must say, I have never been so happy to fork over $963.70 to anyone, but that was all I needed to buy my freedom. Let’s recap my debt board: Continue reading →
Here is what will most likely be my last debt tally (!!!):
Student Loan 003: $0
Student Loan 004: $962.44
Total Debt: $962.44
Nine hundred, sixty-two dollars and 44 freaking cents! I just received my yearly bonus, so I chunked all that towards Sallie Mae. Then I raided every savings account I have, minus the emergency fund, which brought me below the thousand dollar mark. My car still hates me, so it’s best to just be patient and wait the 8 excruciating days. I would use the pennies amassed in the bottom of my purse, but a co-worker told me that might be going off the deep end. Maybe. Maybe not. Continue reading →
In 5 weeks and 3 days, if everything goes according to plan, I’ll be debt-free! I’m so close I can feel it. I can’t wait to walk down the aisle on April 23rd confident in both myself and soon-to-be husband that we are on solid financial footing. That’s a kind of peace that is priceless (other than the cost of paying off debt, of course).
I paid off Loan 002! The way I organized my debt snowball when I finally got to my student loan made a huge difference in my attitude. This is the crown jewel of my debt – the one that filled me with both dread and excitement when I started chunking money at it. I graduated college with about $22,000 in student loans. When I got to it last year after paying off the car, the balance after paying the minimums for 5 years was still about $18k. I sighed when I looked at the balance. Then I realized that I can use the same Debt Snowball strategy to break it up by the individual loans and handle one at a time.
Yes, I’m below the $3000 mark on my car loan! And below the $18,000 mark on my student loan. If you’ve been following me for the last few months, then you’ll see that I’ve paid off about $4000 on my car since November of 2014.
Now, this progress is a little bittersweet for me. Unfortunately, I have one of those temperaments where I have little patience and want things done, like, yesterday. I was hoping to pay my car off by the end of this month, but it’s not going to happen. I just don’t have any extra room in my budget, unless I completely destroy it. I’m receiving a bonus tomorrow with my regular paycheck, which I thought would pay off the car loan, but it turns out I calculated the tax rate incorrectly. I anticipated my regular 17% tax rate on my bonus, but turns out it’s closer to 31%. Ugh. Continue reading →
I’m going to start opening each post with my Debt Snowball update from now on. It’s good to have a visualization for me and for you, the reader. Here goes:
Car Loan: $3,790.10
Student Loan: $17,983.31
I’m a happy camper! These numbers tell me that everything I’ve been doing with my budget, with scrimping and sacrificing, and taking on side gigs/overtime has been working! I’m finally below the $4,000 mark on my car (YAY!), below $18,000 on my student loan and below $22,000 on my total debt. There was a very low point about 8 years ago when I never thought I’d make so much progress on my student loans and have a car very close to being paid off.
When I did my taxes, I lucked out and ended up getting a return of $107. It’s not much, but it’s extra money I didn’t have before. That and another $108 from the part-time gig, and the $151 already budgeted, that gave me $366 to apply towards the principal. It’s like I tell myself on long runs, slow and steady wins this race. I’m starting to get antsy from seeing the light, but I have to be patient because there is only so much money available to throw at my debt without completely destroying my budget.
With that being said, I did get a very important reality check from R. a few days ago. We had discussed going up to Iowa this year for Christmas to visit his family. Originally, it was my idea since they rarely get to see him during the holidays. When the topic came up again, I told him that I really needed to focus on my debt payoff this year and maybe we should wait until next year. He gently reminded me that we’d be engaged sometime this year and that his grandparents are getting older and he might not have the chance to visit them again.
I felt terrible. I’m not that close to my family, so sometimes I forget how normal families interact. I need to remind myself that yes, paying off debt is important, but not as important as family and friends. Never will I let my debt payoff steamroll over those I love again.
Here’s a video that epitomizes that you can still live your life and pay off debt!
What are some life events you’ve experienced while paying off debt? I’d love to hear! Please comment/like below.